How’s your baby?

Where do I start, there is actually no words to describe the pain. The pain of not having my baby by my side. How’s your baby? Errrr ‘I had a stillbirth’ the words I’ve not wanted to say for such a long time ~ is it acceptance that Violet has gone? Yes. To help me […]

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To speak or not to speak

A post on society’s actions whilst grieving & social media If you saw me in public what would you do? Would you say hi? Would you ignore me? Would you walk over and hug me? Would you cross the street to avoid me? Would you ask how I am? I know what I would do […]

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Happy International Women’s Day

Happy International Women’s day to all the wonderful women out there YOU are AMAZING! Wether you are a baby girl, a young teen, a woman, a bereaved mother, a mother, a grandmother, a sister, an auntie, a great grandmother YOU are amazing! And it’s time today to give yourself the appreciation you deserve! I want […]

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Fathers, it’s ok to talk

Hello to all you males, each and every single one of you wether you are a bereaved father a father or not a father. Today I bought our local paper, something caught my eye, a photo on the front page of a very smiley bald headed man who is one of our friends. The local […]

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